. . . Each person is made up of Liquid and Solid energy. Our Liquid energy is ever-changing. Our Solid energy is . . . When two people create an intimate connection, the difference in their dominant energy . . . By using different words, and setting specific intentions during sacred sexual ceremonies, same-sex couples have the same level of enlightened potential as heterosexual couples.
If you and your partner are experiencing highly-charged sexual energy, regardless of each person’s gender assignment, it’s because your sexual energy is highly polarized. When two people create an intimate connection, the difference in their dominant energy creates polarization a.k.a. “sexual chemistry”. The greater the polarization, the more intense the sexual attraction.
Various forms of energetic sex a.k.a. “sacred sexuality” employ many different techniques for cultivating a fulfilling sexual and loving relationship between partners. When learning about sacred sexuality practices such as Chinese sexual yoga, traditional or westernized Tantra, or any other type of energetic sex practice, you’ll notice that most of the techniques are directed towards heterosexual couples. This orientation is largely due to the social constructs that were dominant when these practices were created. This does not represent a deliberate snubbing of same-sex relationships; it just addresses the enlightened potential of the heterosexual couple. By using different words, and setting specific intentions during sacred sexual ceremonies, same-sex couples have the same level of enlightened potential as heterosexual couples.
Traditionally, in a heteronormative social construct, our energies are usually referred to as “masculine and feminine”; these terms sometimes generate confusion and feelings of gender-bias when used in discussions about, or instructions for, sacred sexual ceremonies. Substituting the word “Liquid” for the feminine and “Solid” for the masculine, completely removes gender from the conversation and allows us to focus on our sexual energy instead of our gender energy; it’s the pure essence of all enlightened sacred sexual practices.
Each person is made up of Liquid and Solid energy. Our Liquid energy is ever-changing. Our Solid energy is formula-driven and predictable. Many males manifest more Solid energy than Liquid and many females manifest more Liquid energy than Solid.
Below are some examples of polarized Liquid and Solid energies.
Regardless of gender, we dynamically drift in and out of our Liquid and Solid states; almost always, we are in some state of combined Liquid/Solid energy.
Same Sex Tantra – In coupled sacred sexual practices, one of the most powerful and foundational techniques involves setting an intention to create highly polarized sexual energy between the partners. This technique super-charges your sexual energy allowing you to circulate it with your partner and achieve enlightened states of ecstasy and bliss. Same-sex couples may choose to use this technique by simply acknowledging the dominant energy they intend to manifest during the sacred sexual rituals.
When you’re a same-sex couple attending a sacred sexuality ceremony, and hear words that evoke gender assignments, remember that you are Liquid and Solid; your gender assignment has nothing to do with it. Use those gender-evoking words to trigger your intention to polarize you sexual energy from your partner’s sexual energy and get ready to embrace the bliss.